Why Can’t I Get A Girlfriend?
Bunch of guys these days are asking themselves the same question: Why can’t I get a girlfriend? There could be a lot of reasons for that. The first thing you have to do is ask yourself if the problem is in your behavior or is it maybe your looks. Your looks is the smaller problem than behavior, you can always change what you don’t like but if you can’t change it then the best option is to accept it.
Tip #1. If you don’t like yourself how is anybody else going to? Behavior is not so easily changed, but you can try to tone it down a little. Try not to hog the conversation, let the girls talk more, they’ll think you are a really great listener and that you are not self centered.
Also, don’t try to constantly change the topic of conversation and don’t interrupt all the time. Girls especially like funny, confident guys. Even if you don’t feel confident at the beginning just make her smile, and when you see her smile more often you are going to feel more confident.
Tip #2. The biggest mistake guys make is thinking that they have to do the first move, but actually, as soon as you make eye contact and the girl doesn’t break it, she already did the first move. It’s an obvious indication that she is interested in you so all you should do is ask her to go to coffee with you or something similar to that. Some guys are simply too shy and that is also one of bigger reasons of why can’t you get a girlfriend.
Tip #3. If you are too shy to ask her out how is she going to accept? If you approach a girl like you are the king of the world she is going to think you are egoistic and way too self involved to listen to her or even ask her what she wants. Some men don’t even notice when girls are hitting on them. That kind of situation would be the easiest way to get a date, but if you don’t know the sings of flirting you will not notice and she will think you are turning her down.
So basically if you want to find yourself a girlfriend you must firstly turn to yourself. See what kind of person you are, improve if you think you must, overcome your shyness, and study some flirting techniques. With all that done you will definitely be able to get a girl.
So, are you still wondering why can’t I get a girlfriend? There are some psychological reasons why some unattractive and poor men get plenty of hot and beautiful girlfriends. If you know those reasons and work accordingly, you can also get lots of girlfriends.